PERSISTENCE
by Les Brown
I
believe there are three kinds of people. There are winners, who know
what
they want and understand their potential and the possibilities. They
take
life on. Next are losers, who don't have a clue as to who they are.
They
allow circumstances to shape their lives and their self-image.
I
believe
there is a third group as well. This consists of potential winners
whose
lives are just slightly out of alignment. I call them wayward winners.
It may be that they just need to learn how to be real winners. Perhaps
they've hit a bump or two that has knocked them off course and they are
temporarily befuddled. A failed relationship, a lost job, financial
problems,
unformed goals, a lack of parental support, illness...many things can
send
us off course temporarily.
Wayward
winners are not lost souls; they just need some tweaking and coaching
and
nudging to get them back on course. A map might be nice. Many of these
wayward winners are easily identifiable because they are always
searching.
Right
now, there are many wayward winners out there braving rain, sleet and
snow
because they too still believe that they have untapped talents. They
attend
motivational seminars and listen to inspirational tapes and they plunge
onward, believing that sooner or later they will find their way again.
Other
wayward winners have temporarily given up. They are damaged and
disoriented,
their confidence badly eroded. They tend to drift through life numbly.
The friends and relatives and loved ones of wayward winners see that
they
are out of sync and wonder why they can't be satisfied, why they don't
settle down. They wonder how people who have such obvious abilities and
great potential can be so disoriented and unsure.
It
is difficult for others to understand the rawness of a broken heart or
the aching emptiness of an unguided spirit. You and I know. We have
been
there. Wayward winners know that there are possibilities out there, but
too often they feel locked out from them. Some are afraid to risk any
more
because of what they have risked and lost already.
I
know
now that as difficult as it may be for you wayward winners to do, it is
necessary to continue to test yourselves. Even though you have been
hurt
before, it is the only way to grow. We all have the capacity to change,
to lead meaningful and productive lives by awakening our consciousness.
You
know there are going to be tough times as you go about changing your
life,
so brace yourself and you will be able to handle them. When you get
into
your seat on an airplane, what is the first thing they tell you to do?
Fasten your seat belt. Brace yourself for the turbulence.
When
you decide to move your life to the next level of accomplishment, you
must
fasten your mental and spiritual seat belts because it is going to be a
while before you reach that comfortable level again. You will reach it,
but you must endure the turbulence of change in order to grow.
Try
this technique to help you through the difficult times of change and
growth.
Find four reasons why you cannot succumb to your fears and your
troubles.
Find those deep sources of motivation that can lift you out of the
turbulence
and above the clouds. You must change your life because, for example:
You
have not yet tapped the talents given you.
You
want to leave something more for your children.
You
want to live life rather than letting life live you.
You
want to do what makes YOU happy.
It
is in these rocky early moments of bringing change to your life that
you
discover who you are. In the prosperous times, you build what is in
your
pocket. In the tough times, you strengthen what is in your heart. And
that
is when you gain insight into yourself, insight that leads to
self-mastery
and an expansion of your consciousness as a life-force in both your
personal
and professional lives.
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